Francisca Mandeya

Table of Contents

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Dedication

Introduction

Chapter 1 : Male Entitlement and Female Silence

Chapter 2 : The Student Mother’s Prayer

Chapter 3 : Why Was I Born a Girl?

Chapter 4 : How Inheritance Traditions Fracture
Family Relations

Chapter 5 : Heeding the Transformational Call

Chapter 6 : Engaging Males to Feel

Chapter 7 : “We are Equal. Takaenzana!”

Chapter 8 : Using Culture for Equality

Chapter 9 : Raising Sons to Open Up, Not Shut Down

Chapter 10 : What is Masculinity, Really? (Raising a True Man)

Chapter 11 : Vulnerability is Men’s New Strength

Chapter 12 : Ten Ways to Jettison Toxic Masculinity

Chapter 13 : Respecting Marriage Traditions While
Working for Gender Equality

Chapter 14 : Unity in Maternity: A Mother Never Wins Alone

Chapter 15 : Scars Are Our Teachers

Chapter 16 : Women Delivering

Acknowledgments

Table of Contents

Free Chapters

Other Chapters

Dedication

Introduction

Chapter 1 : Male Entitlement and Female Silence

Chapter 2 : The Student Mother’s Prayer

Chapter 3 : Why Was I Born a Girl?

Chapter 4 : How Inheritance Traditions Fracture Family Relations

Chapter 5 : Heeding the Transformational Call

Chapter 6 : Engaging Males to Feel

Chapter 7 : “We are Equal. Takaenzana!”

Chapter 8 : Using Culture for Equality

Chapter 9 : Raising Sons to Open Up, Not Shut Down

Chapter 10 : What is Masculinity, Really? (Raising a True Man)

Chapter 11 : Vulnerability is Men’s New Strength

Chapter 12 : Ten Ways to Jettison Toxic Masculinity

Chapter 13 : Respecting Marriage Traditions While Working for Gender Equality

Chapter 14 : Unity in Maternity: A Mother Never Wins Alone

Chapter 15 : Scars Are Our Teachers

Chapter 16 : Women Delivering

Acknowledgments